think about it

am i controlling? or are YOU weak?

it's an interesting concept. in order for one to feel as though they are being controlled, they do not feel they are strong enough to stand up for what they believe in, want, or feel. why is that the problem of the so-called "controller"? unless you like to play the victim role, don't be weak. stand up for your point of view, otherwise the person that you claim is controlling you has no idea they are doing such a thing, they just think you agree. it's not flattering to claim you've been controlled, it just makes you look like an idiot.